Saturday, January 25, 2014

Shashi Tharoor's 'Friendship's repercussions on Sunanda Pushkar's Life & Her Mysterious Death

What repercussions did Shashi Tharoor’s ‘Friendship’ have?

In an email to Shashi Tharoor, Meher Tarar says feelingly-" I guess I was right all my life. Friendship between a man and a woman will always be labelled incorrectly and even the woman who's the love of your life will doubt your word against very circumstantial evidence" 

To which Shashi replied that he'd been asked by Sunanda Pushkar to not be in touch with Tarar anymore. "I hope you will understand and forgive me if I stop our phone and email exchanges" he said.

 The events that followed spelled disaster for Shashi Tharoor, who quite obviously was unable to stop communication with Tarar despite his best intentions. I remember the few times I met them, they had looked so happy and engaged with each other. For a third marriage for both, it was delightful to see such a youngster like romance and attraction. Also shows how deceptive appearances can be, and how easily their relationship became prey to suspicion, acrimony and the forbidden apple of Shashi's 'friendship' with the opposite sex. Today months after Sunanda's 'demise' there is no clarity as to the reason of her death, the aplrax placed on her bedside is not present in her blood say the tests conducted to unearth the reason of her untimely death. So were the strips placed there for a reason?

In 'Hum Tum' Saif Ali Khan and Rani Mukherjee have an interesting exchange about the friendship between a man and a woman? Or then 'When Harry Met Sally' Meg Ryan argues with Billy Crystal about the possibility of a platonic friendship between the two sexes.
It might indeed be possible but with the Democlese sword of sex, attraction, lust, chemistry always hanging on the head of the friendship- ready to take it into another dimension anytime. And so it is that a man woman friendship is like a diet which can anytime give into the forbidden chocolate 

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Monday, January 13, 2014

Party Season & You're Feeling Left Out? Here's How To Handle It!

    Alone On New Years Eve?

No where to go and mortified? Not that you don't have a million things to occupy you, but you don't like the feeling of being left out? 

Yes Cinderella was alone too on the night of the Ball, and no, we dont have a physical fairy God Mother who will appear with a magic wand. But don't panic, you can change it all by being your own fairy God Mother. Change your attitude, and be a friend before the upsurge of expectations begin to engulf you. 

Start by inviting your friends over or take them out for a change. Don't believe that it's your birthright to be called when your close circle is invited, just because you belong to the gang. And please do not sulk with your friends, that is indeed harakiri!

 Do you know , that to gain a friend you first have to be one. Not by just hanging around, but by making the effort, reciprocating, calling, asking and being hospitable. And if you still are not invited then please do not throw a tantrum!

It’s the party season, and friends host parties galore at this time.   I find myself inundated with bbm’s of how attractive I’m looking on my dp, ESPECIALLY at the time I am hosting a party. 

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